“My mother....would have been so good at this” and other musings about our parents.
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“Being queer…informs my politics, it informs my fashion, it informs the sex that I have, it informs my gender. It really feels like a bloodline.”
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“I have to be willing and ready to step up to those relationships and to be prepared to receive them. That whole experience of receiving and allowing is something that is really difficult to learn and so crucial. That's sacred.”
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“While my mouth is open, he gets lost among my teeth, sliding down my throat, not being able to escape my mouth.” In her podcast, Why Are People Into That? Tina Horn helps me articulate how cannibalism flips consumption inside out.
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“The fact that they are happily and joyfully paying for my time shows how much they respect me and care for me and my reality as a human being, not just me as a fantasy object.”
Can you be truly altruistic as a submissive? How does one authentically play as a professional?
“Your ability to show up for other people is dependent upon your ability to show up for yourself … I’ve given people everything, because doing that was so much easier putting the work in for myself, and facing and confronting the things that I needed to confront for me.”
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“When I hear the word ‘agreement,’ it’s really a question of values. A value is what you hold in high regard. With an agreement, there can be some play; you can decide those values in that time and that space, and then interact according to those values. “
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