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The Prodigal Mistress Returns
The Prodigal Mistress Returns

I am back in NYC and hungrier than ever.

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NewsEmpress WuJanuary 18, 2024NYC Mistress, dominatrix nyc, BDSM lifestyle
On Space: A Big Announcement (or two)
On Space: A Big Announcement (or two)

I wonder if every baby domme has dreamed of opening their own space in the same way I have, like the way a young girl dreams of her own wedding.

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Empress WuDecember 4, 2023
Birthday Blessings 2023: A (BDSM) Year in Review
Birthday Blessings 2023: A (BDSM) Year in Review

Thank you to everyone who has suffered for me, bled for me, wept for me, swallowed me, made me laugh; you have pushed me to my edges as much as I have pushed you to yours.

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Reflections, Events, NewsEmpress WuJune 19, 2023nyc dominatrix, Mistress, dominatrix nyc, Asian mistress, Asian dominatrix
Spring 2023 Update
Spring 2023 Update

Spring has arrived. Deliver yourself to my doorstep.

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Empress WuMarch 31, 2023
Empress Wu in a City Near You
Empress Wu in a City Near You

February musings + Travel plans for March and April

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News, EventsEmpress WuFebruary 28, 2023dominatrix nyc, Asian dominatrix
On BDSM and Race Pt 2, Featuring The Artist Formerly known as Niko Flux
On BDSM and Race Pt 2, Featuring The Artist Formerly known as Niko Flux

“My mother....would have been so good at this” and other musings about our parents.

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Interviews, Reflections, Sex WorkEmpress WuFebruary 28, 2023Asian mistress, Asian dominatrix, Asian femdom, NYC Mistress, Empress Wu NYC
Empress Wu is coming home!
Empress Wu is coming home!

I’ve finally returned from my time in the South, and let me tell you—I am starving.

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Empress WuJanuary 31, 2023
Happy Holidays from Your Favorite Monster
Happy Holidays from Your Favorite Monster

Have you been fantasizing about trembling in fear before me?

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NewsEmpress WuDecember 19, 2022dominatrix nyc, Houston Dominatrix, austin dominatrix, NYC Mistress, Asian mistress, mindfucking, fearplay
On Decay
On Decay

“You cannot kill me in any way that matters; decay exists as an extant form of life”

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Empress WuOctober 11, 2022
Session Highlights: Observations by an Anthropologist
Session Highlights: Observations by an Anthropologist
Empress WuJuly 18, 2022
Birthday Blessings 2022: A (BDSM) Year in Review
Birthday Blessings 2022: A (BDSM) Year in Review

Another year has come to pass so quickly. This birthday marks an incredible year of growth and love for me.

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Empress WuJune 21, 2022
On Queerness and Kink, with Mistrix Sunmi
On Queerness and Kink, with Mistrix Sunmi

“Being queer…informs my politics, it informs my fashion, it informs the sex that I have, it informs my gender. It really feels like a bloodline.”

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Interviews, ReflectionsEmpress WuJune 1, 2022queer, queerness and kink, Empress Wu NYC, dc, nyc dominatrix, dominatrix nyc
On Boundaries and Intimacy, with Mistress Molly
On Boundaries and Intimacy, with Mistress Molly

“I have to be willing and ready to step up to those relationships and to be prepared to receive them. That whole experience of receiving and allowing is something that is really difficult to learn and so crucial. That's sacred.”

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InterviewsEmpress WuMay 2, 2022BDSM lifestyle, Intimacy, Kink and Intimacy, nyc dominatrix, dominatrix nyc, New york dominatrix, dominatrix, queerness and kink, Asian mistress, NYC Mistress, Empress Wu NYC
On Romance | Dear X
On Romance | Dear X

My romance wears the sheepish skin of violence, but always in pursuit of love

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ReflectionsEmpress WuFebruary 14, 2022romance, NYC Mistress, asian, Asian femdom, life, Dominatrix nyc, nyc, nyc dominatrix
Travel Recap and Announcements
Travel Recap and Announcements
NewsEmpress WuJanuary 13, 2022Los Angeles Dominatrix, California Dominatrix, DC dominatrix, Houston Dominatrix, NYC Mistress, Dominatrix nyc
On Secrets
On Secrets

How sticky and sweet a secret is, enveloping its keepers in a cushy interiority and slicking both parties in a fine film of knowing.

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Reflections, Art ParallelsEmpress WuNovember 18, 2021New york dominatrix, Dominatrix nyc, Empress Wu NYC, Asian dominatrix, BDSM and ARt, bdsm ritual, BDSM lifestyle
On Beauty and the Sublime
On Beauty and the Sublime

True beauty is haunting. It is not simply that which is seen. It is an experience, varying in volume from a sweet and gentle tenderness to a distortion that shakes you to your core.

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Art Parallels, ReflectionsEmpress WuSeptember 29, 2021Asian dominatrix, Asian femdom, sadist, BDSM and ARt, bdsm ritual, BDSM lifestyle, transformational bdsm
On Roleplay
On Roleplay

Roleplaying creates an entire universe in which I am God and my play partner is human, but we are equally co-collaborators of this constructed cosmos.

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ReflectionsEmpress WuSeptember 7, 2021roleplay, Professional dominatrix, Empress Wu NYC, Pro Domme, Mistress, kink, BDSM lifestyle, bdsm ritual, transformational bdsm
Tools of the Trade: Empress Wu in Petit Mort Magazine
Tools of the Trade: Empress Wu in Petit Mort Magazine

I recently had the pleasure of being interviewed by Petit Mort Magazine about my opinions on tools and organization for their summer 2021 issue! Read on for an excerpt and to see photos from my feature.

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Empress WuJuly 19, 2021
Birthday Blessings 2021: A (BDSM) Year in Review
Birthday Blessings 2021: A (BDSM) Year in Review

I am so happy and lucky to be alive, and I owe much of it to the play partners, friends, sex working and queer family that I currently have in my life.

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Empress WuJune 16, 2021
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